Hi again everyone.
I hope you've all had a good week and that this blog update finds you well.
My week has involved a 2nd week off as school is still on holiday, a long overdue trip to see my daughter and my grandchildren (with Halloween goodies in tow), a couple of trips to Hayling Island, the delight of actually becoming the owners of a beach hut, a planned trip to London with another daughter that I had to cancel as I was feeling poorly, the scattering of mother in laws ashes and the challenge of a 4km fun run that took place today. Crikey, I feel exhausted just reading that!
I had booked for Jack and I to take part in The Loseley a couple of months ago and, as it was a fun run, I decided that I would try and take part in it. My thinking was that 4km is a reasonable distance but not too far and the event was advertised as being suitable for families so there were bound to be people walking and jogging and just being happy to take part.
Now, on the Friday evening I had been working with Sam and had started to feel decidedly queasy shortly after I had settled him for the night. By the time I got home I felt rough. I felt sick, shaky and ached all over. I was also feeling hot one minute and cold the next. I fell into bed and had a sleepless night and, as a consequence, spent all of yesterday (Saturday) in bed. I decided that I would have to wait and see how I felt this morning (Sunday) before making any decisions about taking part in The Loseley today.
When I woke up I felt back to normal, the sun was shining and the sky was blue. I think that if it had been pouring with rain I may have made a different choice but I decided that it would be foolish to not at least turn up to the event and give it a go. I attempted to wake Jack up....never an easy thing to do at the best of times and certainly not any easier when he is nursing a hangover. When he finally rolled out of bed we got our things together and set off to Loseley House where the event was being staged.
The Loseley is arranged as a fundraiser for Chase Children's Hospice which is situated between Guildford and Godalming. The hospice is a wonderful place and I have been fortunate to work there. I have seen at first hand the tremendous job that the staff do and I have seen how much the children and their families benefit from the care and attention that they receive. My short spell of working at Chase made me realise how very lucky I am to have never had to use its services.
Anyway, Jack and I arrived at the venue, parked up and made our way to the reception area where we collected our numbers, our t-shirts and our timing devices. We went back to the car to sort ourselves out because it was chilly in the wind and we were feeling the cold. Pathetic really!! Then it was off to the start and we dutifully took part in the warm up which I quite enjoy but Jack doesn't. He's way too cool for warm ups obviously.
As we were both taking part in the same distance this time we set off together but that is as far as our joint running venture went. I know I am not advised to run anymore and Jack is a competitive person so we were
soon separated and in our own musical headspace thanks to our playlists and our trusty i phones.
Despite my best efforts I found it impossible to not run. I promise I did try to walk but I just couldn't! However, I mixed up my light jogging with good spells of walking and I managed quite well. I took on all of the obstacles which included a cargo net, hay bales, muddy puddles, tree trunks and rubber tyres. I was overtaken many times by children and their parents but I just kept going. I'm sure the fact that it was sunny helped immensely and the atmosphere throughout was one of fun. Having said that, I was very relieved to see the finish signs.
I completed the course in a very average time of 33.34 and finished 152nd out of 223 so I didn't disgrace myself. Jack, of course, did really well. I don't know how he does it with his rubbish diet and his 'hectic' social life but he finished 4th in a time of 19.28. Just think how well he would do if he did some training or, at least, didn't run when he's hungover!
I met Jack back at the car and we set of for home, via Godalming, and got ready to go to Normandy cricket club where we had arranged to scatter Grandma's ashes alongside a bench that we have erected in her memory. It seemed very apt that the sun continued to shine while we carried out the proceedings. I like to think that Grandma would have been smiling if she had been able to see me trotting along earlier in the day and she would have been very proud that Jack did so well. I know that she would have been really happy that all of her family were able to get together for a little while to remember her for the lovely wife, Mum and Grandma that she was.
Now, a few hours later, all is back to normal. Rosie is on her way back to Oxford with Harry, Jack is recovering, Russ is relaxing and I have a dog that needs a walk. My knee is feeling okay which is a fantastic
relief. Let's hope it still feels alright in the morning.
Until we meet again...
A xx